The idea of being a bad parent pisses me off, but I know for sure I am not fit to be a parent. I’m not really a family person, fairly individualistic and long term compromise and dependency is annoying. A kid depending on me forever is a nightmare to me

I can maintain being a decent person as long as I get time to fuck off. Nah get that with kids, low key I feel like I’d resent them. Why would I subject someone to that? Awful

I love structure but routines also make me miserable. Adhering to a kids school schedule would piss me the fuck offf wouldn’t wah deal with that at all.

But as awful as all of this sounds just remember... having children is optional and not necessary lol