i wish i could properly articulate helpful advice for people who grew up feeling responsible for other peoples feelings ugh. the best advice i can muster right now is dont discount your feelings/wants~

Also some advice that no one is required to take but anyone who considers themselves and empathetic person & one who doesnt understand why their relationships are so hard, to please look up codependency and how to set healthy boundaries ; u ; <3

Codependence is one of those things that people dont ever consider unless its really severe but its insidious and can creep in through cracks into relationships j u jbb