im suddenly reminded of a “friend” of mine that said they were ace and sex repulsed at the start of our friendship but then when they were trying to convince(read: force) me to date them, they suddenly were okay with doing sex things... coincidentally i found out i was aro around

this time and they were the first person i told bc lack-of-attraction-solidarity and they told me i was lying and making up excuses to not date them, and then that weekend we had a sleepover bc we had planned it like a month before and there were supposed to be 4 of us but the

other two bailed last minute so it was just us two and i felt so awkward the entire time, and while we had 2 beds (regular and air) they decided to sleep with me on the air mattress and ended up cuddling me,,, and now that i think about it ive had the worst experiences with aces