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Here’s a thread for anyone that’s going through something and it’s weighing them down
I know you lost someone or something that’s taking a toll on you, you feel the heaviness of your heart every time it beats. Every time you think about the situation your heart drops down to your stomach. It’s because you have yet to accept the fact that it happened for a reason..
You’re gonna blame yourself constantly, and it’s gonna eat you up inside. You have to realize that you can not control people and you can not control the outcome of some situations. No matter how hard you try it just didn’t work out, that means god has something better for you
The first step is forgiving or accepting what as happened. Own that shit. Once you accept it and Own it, the weight will begin to release from your heart, your heart will no longer drop. Your mind and heart will no longer be at war with each other. Now on to the healing stage!!
The healing stage is not going to be easy. The length of the healing stage all depends on you. DO NOT rush yourself to heal because if you do than you won’t heal properly. Take as much time as you need. Do whatever you do that helps you cope. If it’s crying, than cry. It’s okay !
If you have to distance yourself from everyone to heal then do it, it’s okay. Sometimes you have to fall back to find yourself. Healing the heart and healing the mind is all about personal choice, you have to do what’s best for you personally in order to heal properly.
It doesn’t matter how long it takes but Once you complete your healing stage, it’s time to grow up and glow up. This is time time to focus on making yourself a better person mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually before jumping back out into the world.
Don’t change for anyone but yourself, Don’t change anything about yourself unless it’s for you.. Growing up mentally is going to be amazing because you learn, you learn your worth, you learn what to do and what not to do. You learn that you are SOMEBODY !!!
Glowing up is the funnies part. Go hit the gym, go shopping, go get a fresh new hair cut or a new hair style. Go do whatever to make you happy. Take care of yourself because self care is the best care. Your skin will began to glow, your hair will grow, guys your beard will grow !
Once you done the glow up stage. another opportunity will present its self. Something or someone will come along. Shake the thought of the past failures and the pain.. Take a chance,It’s okay to change yourself for you to be better for someone else, if that’s what YOU desire
Don’t EVER give up, Believe in God and most importantly Believe in Yourself because if you don’t, than nobody will. Never forget that You ARE Somebody special, You are destined for greatness, Tough Times never last because God never puts you through something you can’t handle !
If you work hard, success is imminent, no matter what you been through. If it’s love that is what bringing you down, you will succeed in finding love, if it’s a job, you will succeed in finding a career fuck a job. If it’s a school, keep grinding, the hard nights will pay off.
To end this thread, I want to say that, you are somebody special even if you don’t see it at this point. Life is not going to be easy, but don’t give up. You will come up on top. Believe in God. Believe in Yourself.
Follow me, Dm me if you need someone that will listen. I’m human, I know what it’s like to go through hard times, I know what it’s like to be trapped in darkness, what it’s like to be your own demon. If i don’t know what you’re going through, I promise I’ll try to understand
