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To a woman, a relationship is like a house. The foundation is his commitment, the walls are his self-respect (not hers), and the roof is his provisioning.
As she tries to make this house a home, adding beauty and softness and things that need care...
As she tries to make this house a home, adding beauty and softness and things that need care...
... she will never stop testing the strength of these walls.
But don& #39;t expect her to see see beyond these walls. Everything that happens to her is a sign of either safety or danger. Every reaction instills either trust or fear.
Nature selected for this trait in females..
But don& #39;t expect her to see see beyond these walls. Everything that happens to her is a sign of either safety or danger. Every reaction instills either trust or fear.
Nature selected for this trait in females..
...so she can fulfill her biological imperative of finding a safe place for our babies to grow. Don& #39;t get mad at it.
Recognize that even "Do I look fat in these jeans" is about survival.
In fact, if she& #39;s testing you, it means she& #39;s choosing to live inside your house...
Recognize that even "Do I look fat in these jeans" is about survival.
In fact, if she& #39;s testing you, it means she& #39;s choosing to live inside your house...
..she& #39;s granting you permission to create for her the boundaries of her emotionality, the space that her frailty (and the frailty of her babies) will live within.
Don& #39;t hate these tests. Don& #39;t bitch about these tests. It& #39;s an honor. But don& #39;t fuck them up either...
Don& #39;t hate these tests. Don& #39;t bitch about these tests. It& #39;s an honor. But don& #39;t fuck them up either...
