men like j*e b*dden that are able to identify that you are “selling yourself as a gf” despite not wanting you to be their gf, that stick around & play into it to enjoy the benefits anyway whilst ultimately letting you down are emotionally manipulative & refuse to admit that.

sure it’s not technically “wrong” & women are able to recognize when there is no reciprocity, but if you clearly know her intentions then your decision to take what she offers despite returning what she wants is blatantly using her only to let her down. def dickhead behavior!

obviously women need to be real with themselves & stop offering more than what they’re receiving to lure a man in. I’m not removing the accountability here, but men love to pretend they’re doing nothing wrong & they’re clearly taking advantage of the situation purposely. wth!