“Date people who actually like you” makes sense though if you really apply it to a lot of situations. Women complain that men don’t do anything for them etc, why you with someone that doesn’t like you enough to do things for you? You should’ve known that before a relationship tho

Women really stress a lot about things that can be avoided if you just take the time to pursue people that actually want to be pursued instead of both of you turning a sexual relationship into an emotional one where it’s only one sided. Then people get mad.

Point 1: People having sex before getting into a relationship is not a negative thing in any way lol. If they want to know that they can please each other before further getting emotional then what’s the problem? Imagine waiting years until you guys are serious & the sex trash https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😕" title="Confused face" aria-label="Emoji: Confused face">

Point 2: if he isn’t initiating options to take you out places that he’s taken note of that you like them he doesn’t like you, move on lol. Men aren’t stupid, they do listen so if you’re noticing he doesn’t care about simple things then why stay? Don’t complain yet still pursue..

I also don’t like women that always preach that you’re independent and don’t need a man for anything so you hide your wants & likes & just expect people to want to do things for you after you’ve been so uptight the whole time. It’s fine to be independent but don’t complain after.

Then there’s the people that complain about their S/O’s household practices/habits. Shouldn’t you of known that before moving in together? Sleepovers here and there? Staying at their house for a bit here and there? Seeing how clean they are? All could’ve been prevented..