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I've been reflecting over the past few days about how to help those facing bereavement or caring for the dying in new roles, clinical or caring. (multi-part thread)
Each of us face death, both our own & others in different ways, each passing is unique. One of my medical teachers once said 'Our duty is to give as much peace, dignity and compassion as we can when someone is dying, it is a privilege and important to be present'
Too often we forget that death is part of life, it is the part that makes life so special and important, knowing that at some point this life ends but that in ending the memories, the joy and laughter remains in those who live on.
Some links that may be helpful: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/10-things-i-learned-while_b_5923558
When my best friend died unexpectedly several years ago it took me a long time to recognise my grief and to find peace with his passing. I often send up a little thought to his spirit and don't hold back from remembering with a smile the things he loved and the laughs we had.
A link from Mind about coping with grief https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/your-stories/coping-with-grief-when-my-dad-died/
When I was a junior doctor I worked with many children with complex needs, one was a little girl with HIV who sadly died. The weekend she died I sat with her, shared miso soup, talked about random things. She taught me a lot about focusing on the time you have to the full.
Lots of useful information on the NHS website https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/stress-anxiety-depression/coping-with-bereavement/
