Me personally im working on not being so serious all of them time. I was raised in a super disciplined environment and as the first born male, it was always "Chinemerem you have to take care of this. Make sure your sisters have this. Youre a man handle that"

Compounded by the fact that alot of first gen kids are their parents translators. Sometimes linguisticly but in most cases culturally. So we grew up quick. When in reality we probably should have played more and not concerned ourselves with the affairs of adults.

All of thay breeds somewhat anti social, extreme intelligent, often anxious yet successful young people.

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