TIPS to make ‘Licking’ enjoyable
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1. Say it
Tell a new lover you’d like to go down on her.
Say it verbally, or work your way down, kissing her neck, boobs, and tummy, to hint where you’re headed.
Not all women enjoys oral. Check in, say something like, “I’d like to keep going down. Is that okay?” Move slowly.
Tell a new lover you’d like to go down on her.
Say it verbally, or work your way down, kissing her neck, boobs, and tummy, to hint where you’re headed.
Not all women enjoys oral. Check in, say something like, “I’d like to keep going down. Is that okay?” Move slowly.
2. Begin slowly
Be slow and as gentle as possible.
Start by kissing inner thighs and area around her vulva. Anticipation of cunnilingus is very arousing.
And that is where you set her mood right, and makes her want it even more.
Be slow and as gentle as possible.
Start by kissing inner thighs and area around her vulva. Anticipation of cunnilingus is very arousing.
And that is where you set her mood right, and makes her want it even more.
3. Intensify as she opens up
Once she spreads herself open, then be bolder and lick the fleshy outer lips first.
Next, work your tongue in between the folds of the outer lips to go and caress the inner lips.
Then circle the vaginal opening, and even insert your tongue inside.
Once she spreads herself open, then be bolder and lick the fleshy outer lips first.
Next, work your tongue in between the folds of the outer lips to go and caress the inner lips.
Then circle the vaginal opening, and even insert your tongue inside.
4. Check in with her
Feel free to ask how she likes it.
Different women react differently, so important to check that she's comfortable and enjoying what you're doing, and in sync with her tempo and arousal.
Increase intensity as she gets more aroused and approaches orgasm.
Feel free to ask how she likes it.
Different women react differently, so important to check that she's comfortable and enjoying what you're doing, and in sync with her tempo and arousal.
Increase intensity as she gets more aroused and approaches orgasm.
5. Clits are very sensitive
Approach her clit with care.
Some enjoy a tongue directly, others don't, so test the waters, lick around the clit, and move bolder based on her reaction.
Don't worry the clit and its surrounding are all super sensitive and give the same pleasure.
Approach her clit with care.
Some enjoy a tongue directly, others don't, so test the waters, lick around the clit, and move bolder based on her reaction.
Don't worry the clit and its surrounding are all super sensitive and give the same pleasure.