do like... good husbands exist? And not just husbands women say are good, but like men who actually do exactly half of the child rearing and house keeping without any excuses? https://www.vanityfair.com/style/2020/04/dispatches-from-the-gender-gap-motherhood-in-the-time-of-coronavirus

I’ve read so many articles like this and it’s just so frustrating??? Two of the women in this (so far) are like “my husband goes in his office and closes the door.” So.... go in and tell him to come out??? If he’s on the computer, tell your kid to ask him for help??? I’m LIKE

One of my deepest fears is being with a guy I really love and then having kids and he turns into this and I do everything by myself to “keep the family together” and because “his job is so demanding” and my own stuff suffers lolololol