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Tip from experience: if someone tells you that they raped or otherwise sexually assaulted someone in the past "but they& #39;ve changed now", it& #39;s probably best to just leave them.
(TW: SA)
This happened with my ex. They told me that like ten years ago, they used to masturbate in front of women against their will and once removed a condom without a partner knowing (which is rape). I should have left them then.
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They were so manipulative about it, and although they never physically harmed me, they did end up sexually abusing me by doing stuff like showing their boyfriend sexually explicit texts I& #39;d sent them and including other people in online play without my consent.
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Then they got super mad at me for telling people that they& #39;d raped and sexually abused people when we broke up, because "that was private" or something.
I& #39;m not saying people shouldn& #39;t change or even get second chances. But if someone admits to abusive behaviour, there& #39;s a good chance they& #39;ll do it to you too.
YOU don& #39;t have to be anyone& #39;s second chance. You don& #39;t have to put yourself at risk for their reform.
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