i love how wei wuxian isn& #39;t flustered by inappropriate things but would immediately lose it if lan wangji were to hold the door open for him.

wei wuxian: *can handle when lan wangji is horny as heck*

also wei wuxian: *can& #39;t handle when lan wangji is being an absolute sweetheart and gentleman*

i think the reason for this is because...being lustful is less impactful than being loving?? lust doesn& #39;t really carry the emotional baggage that love does, imo. so while wei wuxian is used to flirting and making suggestive jokes, he& #39;s not used to genuinely being loved and-

treated sweetly by someone who views him like he& #39;s their entire universe.