god honestly there’s all this discourse about who people are and aren’t fucking, like, who cares. if you aren’t a ‘gold star gay’ whatever. if you’re a man who is attracted to masculine people regardless of gender and just call yourself gay, fine. if you’re a lesbian and like
once in a blue moon you decide to get drunk and have sex with a dude who cares. if you’re a bisexual who only dates one gender or only cis and/or binary people sure. just don’t turn it into internet discourse about how everyone should agree with you
like literally we’re people and people are beyond definition. not everyone wants to put a word to every single facet of their personal life and relationships and some people do and love that. who cares mind your business why are you so concerned with everyone else’s life
anybody who makes a huge deal about everyone else’s personal ideas about selfhood is four times as annoying as any vegan or any person who makes being anti vegan their entire personality. jesus christ
maybe this is why i hate polyamorous and adjacent ppl. i don’t give a fuck that you and your wife are swingers jerry i would’ve loved to go my entire life without knowing your wrinkly white middle aged ass likes to get it on with the bartender you complain to after work everyday
also any bitch who wants to be the gender police? you are literally so fucking lame. my child could be in full lolita dress and beat with a wig on and everything, if they said he/him pronouns today then by god i’m gonna call him that. who cares. we’re all in hell