i feel like it's extremely necessary to compliment butches and studs and muscular women in a way that isn't just "omg i wish they could punch me in the throat/kick me in the face/beat me up" etc. women that aren't "feminine" deserve to be treated softly, too

i don't want to speak for these people but i take it it's funny at first but if that's the Only Way other sapphics hit on you and compliment you... Then it can become offensive REAL quick so please show them some love in other ways