Btw it’s not about traps, it’s a matter of control. We’ve seen it play out in different ways at different times. It is always about control.

If you can’t see that ‘I can’t date you if you post traps’ stems from men thinking they can dictate what their partners are ‘allowed’ to do i.e control, I can’t help you. I’m not even ready to help you see it. Lmaooo