I have an unsettled feeling about this picture, which I can& #39;t pin down.
I think it is do to with this being an actual, life threatening illness to many people, and presenting fear as such a negative response seems judgemental
We are in unprecedented circumstances,
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with many factors beyond our control. For many people survival is going to be a good outcome, learning and growth can wait.
I& #39;m not suggesting people wallow in the fear zone, and we need to help people reduce the influence of fear if it& #39;s causing problems.
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But perhaps that& #39;s better achieved by accepting that some hoarding is useful, some complaining makes us feel better, not making people feel bad about their emotional response
I& #39;d love to choose to be in the growth zone, but that& #39;s not realistic for me right now, and that& #39;s ok