Dommes: if a client has violated your boundaries don't turn it into a game or they will learn to see boundary violations as a game. 1/3

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Examples of games:
1. making them send you a tribute or gift for each infraction
2. blocking/unblocking/blocking
3. public humiliation/degradation
4. more/harder spanking/flogging/caning/whipping
5. in any way bringing the reality of the violation into your fantasy play.

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What you are teaching them:
1. You have a price.
2. You won't stick to your guns and will eventually unblock.
3. How to get some public play out of you.
4. How to get more intense impact play out of you.
5. To confuse the reality of harm with the fantasy of it.

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