My uncle always said Society said “men have sex, women stay virgins. Understand the man shame the woman”. Trying to divorce a toxic man was/is still seen as shameful. “he said sorry” “he chose u” “do it 4 the kids” “@ least he comes home””it’s a woman’s job to make it work” https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🤦🏾‍♀️" title="Woman facepalming (medium dark skin tone)" aria-label="Emoji: Woman facepalming (medium dark skin tone)"> https://twitter.com/pearlfectten/status/1245731989677842432">https://twitter.com/pearlfect...

The lack of options and support meant they stayed just for the sake of being said they are married. Had a conversation with one lady saying you don’t leave your marriage for being beaten or cheating. He bought you, your job is to fix yourself to please him. My heart broke !!

Like they don’t enjoy the marriage, just make sure he does. Even if it means he drags his feet all over your life and washes 30 years of your life in toxicity to apologize on his death bed or hope he changes in year 31 to become what you deserved 30 yrs ago