I try my best to be there for people when they’re going through shit, but I don’t know if I’m any good at it and I feel so guilty when I don’t know what to say. My first instinct is always to solve people’s problems, but some don’t have obvious solutions. I’m sorry if I’ve (1/4)

let anyone down when they opened up to me and I wasn’t of any help. I’ve realized that people don’t always want solutions; sometimes, they just need someone to listen. I recognize that I’m not good at just listening, and I might come off as insensitive by asking (2/4)

a million questions while I’m trying to figure out how I can help. For the longest time, I never knew that help doesn’t always come in the form of an easy fix. I’m saying this because I want people to tell me what I’m doing wrong. Tell me if what I’m saying (3/4)

feels less like help and more like damage control. Even if this thread rubs you the wrong way; tell me why. Educate me. I’m trying to improve my flaws but I’ll need some constructive criticism. Thanks oomfs~ https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="💛" title="Yellow heart" aria-label="Emoji: Yellow heart"> (4/4)