On the matter..

You cannot “avoid” sexual urges, dear believer.

You need to first understand that those feelings you feel are not evil. They don’t make you ‘dirty’.

God himself put them in you.

Now ask yourself this: If sexual desire was a sin, why did He create me with sexual desires?

Brethren, sexual attraction/desire is natural.

When bae is just being bae and you start to feel “it”, that’s not necessarily the same thing as lusting after them.

Can that natural sexual attraction get out of hand, though? Absolutely.

This is why you must always exercise self-control.

You can’t keep birds from flying over your head, but you can keep them from building a nest in your hair.