Monogamy is great but toxic monogamy ain’t and imma about to yell about it

the idea that intense love is enough to overcome practical incompatibility

the idea that you should meet your partner’s every need and if you don’t you’re inadequate or they’re too needy

The idea that commitment is synonymous with exclusivity

The idea that your value to your partner is directly proportional to how much energy/time they spend on you and that it is in zero sum competition with other things they value in life