Padres would never rape kids by this logic. Nor would there be rape charges against babas, gurus. If you really think Tablighis cannot be lewd around women, I am just glad you are not in charge of investigating this. https://twitter.com/dhume/status/1246151125365075974

And I am sorry to say this bluntly: but it is indeed possible in many cases that the same person would respect consent etc around a female who is a believer versus one who is not. So Arfa’s testimony maybe true and yet.

But most victims are within the community only in any case.