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Okay so I need you to understand. The surname thing, there are implications. Ukubangwa idlozi is no joke...
If you born before your mom aye to your dad's athelwe ngenyongo nawe kumele ukishwe kabomalume ngembuzi basho ukhuti ingan iyahamba iyakubo, wamkelwe kini ngembuzi khona ngeke ksasa ubangwe idlozi.
The sad part is simoshwa abazali. I fail to understand how we choose what to follow. We accept amalobola but mekumele kwenziwe amasiko suddenly "kusindisiwe layikhaya, asiwenzi amasiko" Kanjani???? How do u pick what's convenient for you, hayini let's take a step back and access.
Awuthi nginiyeke...
One more thing... Bosis bam, stop giving away your kids! Nimosha abantwana. Indoda uma ofuna ingan yayo ayenze okufanele, uyakhoka and if he wants ingan ukhuti ibize isbongo sakhe uyayilobola. Ulobola ingan hayi wena. Let's not repeat our parents mistakes...
Uyaphahla ubiza idlozi lakabobaba that you haven't been introduced to, yaz ukhuti you adding fuel to the fire?
Your dad hasn't paid kini, he didn't even bring inkuku but you walking around using his surname, do you understand the damage?
I won't be able to answer you all. This thread is just for informational purposes, trying to give insight to some of the things we face as abantu. Please see a healer for further assistance /direction.
Inzima uma kwa umawakho engenzelwanga isikho. Please consult and leso sangoma will guide you.
