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I know what I pulled Myself out of to get to where I am. I got past fear, the human neediness for validation that kept Me tied to unsupportive partners, the parts where I didn’t think I’d make it.
Then I decided to *actually* pursue My kinks. I missed findom so I made this acct.
Then I decided to *actually* pursue My kinks. I missed findom so I made this acct.
THAT is why I set and ENFORCE boundaries that are in place to protect Me, My empathetic self & big heart.
It’s a privilege I extend to very few subs who send selflessly, the chance to become someone I care for deeply, as I’ve already had more than My share of mental gymnastics.
It’s a privilege I extend to very few subs who send selflessly, the chance to become someone I care for deeply, as I’ve already had more than My share of mental gymnastics.
You *must* be willing to serve Me with no expectations of any kind, just because you’re happy to be there. Because you see strength worth respecting, beauty that inspires you, power that commands your soul.
I’m only interested in those who will appreciate Me for everything I am.
I’m only interested in those who will appreciate Me for everything I am.
It’s not enough to be able to satiate My financial/dominant sexual appetite. It’s not enough to have things in common. It’s not even enough to have both.
It will never be enough without the disposition to serve as if you got every reward possible while knowing I owe you nothing.
It will never be enough without the disposition to serve as if you got every reward possible while knowing I owe you nothing.
Of course, if you’re Mine, I reward; ask @GimpingS about that if you’d like.
The fact is, I went through hell to get here, to find Myself, and to put Myself out here as a Dominant to be known & served by subs who align with Me.
Very few will.
My rules weed out the ill fitted.
The fact is, I went through hell to get here, to find Myself, and to put Myself out here as a Dominant to be known & served by subs who align with Me.
Very few will.
My rules weed out the ill fitted.
IF YOU COME TO ME wanting to “try” findom 
https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🥺" title="Pleading face" aria-label="Emoji: Pleading face">, & I offer to show you the ropes, I am in no way obligated to give you emotional labor for free when you struggle with your feelings around why you can’t hit send. I didn’t ask you to send. You came to someone who knows what She wants.
If you come to Me wanting to be owned, I don’t have to entertain the thought of owning you or even placing you under consideration just because we’re both atheists or musicians or cannabis nerds or whatever else.
You’re not entitled to anything of Mine, just as I’m not to you.
You’re not entitled to anything of Mine, just as I’m not to you.
Making it clear that My emotional energy is reserved for the people in My life who I love & who love Me has been the best thing I’ve done for Myself as a dominant, as well as clearly defining when a sub has crossed the line of habitual session booker to near and dear to My heart.
Those who serve Me will be 1 of 3 things:
1. Someone who likes supporting SWs, paying for kink, is a respectful once in a while client
2. Someone who wants to support Me specifically even though they may never be one of My very few “owned”
3. One of My collared submissive pets
1. Someone who likes supporting SWs, paying for kink, is a respectful once in a while client
2. Someone who wants to support Me specifically even though they may never be one of My very few “owned”
3. One of My collared submissive pets
Given the amount of blocking I’ve had to do recently, I thought a thread about My feelings on the matter might help.
If you didn’t come to serve a total f*cking badass Domme on HER terms and watch Her outdo Herself every year, you have no place applying for a place under Mehttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😌" title="Relieved face" aria-label="Emoji: Relieved face">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😘" title="Face throwing a kiss" aria-label="Emoji: Face throwing a kiss">
If you didn’t come to serve a total f*cking badass Domme on HER terms and watch Her outdo Herself every year, you have no place applying for a place under Me