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RElATIONSHIP vs FRIENDS
Disclaimer: this thread was requested by @on.my.block._edtz and is about balancing your relationships and friends/social life etc. Keep In mind that what works for others might not work for you, dm me “
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MAKE PLANS TO HANG OUT
Making intentional space to see your best friend one-on-one is healthier for both relationships. It ensures that you and your new boo don& #39;t get totally wrapped around one another to the point where you isolate yourselves.
Making intentional space to see your best friend one-on-one is healthier for both relationships. It ensures that you and your new boo don& #39;t get totally wrapped around one another to the point where you isolate yourselves.
TALK ABOUT THEM FIRST
When you hang out with your bestie, don& #39;t flood them with the exciting new details of your new love. It& #39;s great to gush, but your best friend has a life, too. Ask them how they are doing and what they have been up to. Take extra care to comfort them.
When you hang out with your bestie, don& #39;t flood them with the exciting new details of your new love. It& #39;s great to gush, but your best friend has a life, too. Ask them how they are doing and what they have been up to. Take extra care to comfort them.
TRY TO BE HAPPY FOR YOUR FRIEND
You are there to be a friend, not a parent, therapist, protector or anything else. In a true friendship, you should want your friend to be happy. If he is happy, share in the joy. If he is not happy, that& #39;s really for him to figure out
You are there to be a friend, not a parent, therapist, protector or anything else. In a true friendship, you should want your friend to be happy. If he is happy, share in the joy. If he is not happy, that& #39;s really for him to figure out
THINK ABOUT SMALL GROUPS
When you DO want to include friends and your significant other, try smaller groups at first. This way, your friends can actually get to know your BF and vice versa. A baseball game or food truck event are both smart ideas; there’s time to talk
When you DO want to include friends and your significant other, try smaller groups at first. This way, your friends can actually get to know your BF and vice versa. A baseball game or food truck event are both smart ideas; there’s time to talk
DON’T FORCE IT
Instead of forcing your BFF to hang with your guys’ group of friends when you go out, if they don’t necessarily jive, don’t force it or take it personally. Find the groups that seem to get along naturally, and don’t worry about every person becoming best friends.
Instead of forcing your BFF to hang with your guys’ group of friends when you go out, if they don’t necessarily jive, don’t force it or take it personally. Find the groups that seem to get along naturally, and don’t worry about every person becoming best friends.
BE OPEN
When struggling with a friend who is only interested in her boyfriend or a partner who is only interested in their friends, be open about it. If they don’t take your words to heart, you may want to reconsider that relationship.
When struggling with a friend who is only interested in her boyfriend or a partner who is only interested in their friends, be open about it. If they don’t take your words to heart, you may want to reconsider that relationship.
