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Women that leave you when times are hard are not less real than those who stayed. And itâs high time we realized them leaving is actually kindness.
Hear me out.
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Hear me out.
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Everyone is built different. Our beliefs, morals, values etc is/could be adopted or instilled and life & circumstances shape/change these over the years. Relationships evolve and circumstances play a huge role in this.
When times are hard, women especially get triggered. 1/7
When times are hard, women especially get triggered. 1/7
They realize deep down theyâre just not built for this hardship. Why lie to themselves and pretend they can do something they canât. They probably done the best they could enduring with you but when things ainât looking up they tend to get frustrated. End up cheating even. 2/7
Trust me. Youâd wish yâall broke up If they stayed. Abuse of various nature and magnitude(verbal/physical) would surface and a relationship that used to be all roses and wine suddenly turns guns & knives. Itâs all cuz shes frustrated not cuz she donât love you. 3/7
Donât get me wrong ladies, I know some of yâall are ride or die. The masses arenât and Iâm here for them.
All Iâm tryn to say is, What you invest in people specifically emotions donât guarantee their stay in ur life. Look, social media alone pressure people mad. 4/7
All Iâm tryn to say is, What you invest in people specifically emotions donât guarantee their stay in ur life. Look, social media alone pressure people mad. 4/7
Youâll be surprised Appreciation & fear is the reason most women stay with Men whoâs supported them since & not outta love. They feel indebted. So imagine if she going through shit and you canât help. She practically feels sheâs wasting away with you. 5/7
IMO women like that are being REAL with themselves. Women arenât built for hardship, very selected few go out of their way to be reasonable, hope filled and conscience driven. Maybe you think thatâs how it should be but men cheat on women whoâs held them down too. Bastards
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Not here to side with ungrateful people But consider their exit as a sign and blessing. Donât fault or judge them.
Protect your mental health and let them go. They did what was best for them, you owe yourself whatâs best for you.
Wish them well and keep working on yourself. 7/7
Protect your mental health and let them go. They did what was best for them, you owe yourself whatâs best for you.
Wish them well and keep working on yourself. 7/7
