Girls, YW, & women - LDS or not - you can’t advertise your desperation for companionship on SM & expect to cultivate attention from worthy or worthwhile guys. You’re setting yourself up for emotional & physical usury. Your need for attention will only attract bottom-dwellers who

will be more than happy to use you. And dump you. And afterwards, when you feel used & devalued & cheap, you’ll be more culpable for that result than they are.

Yes this is a subtweet.

Respect yourself first. Unless you do, no one else can.

And guys, no decent girl wants a

needy, desperate guy. It’s very unattractive and it’ll land you in the perpetual friend zone.

So all you singles, sorry. Your mom (and your future kids) asked me to be blunt with you.

You’re welcome.

#DezNat

PS lowering your standards to the vulgarity of the world is beneath you. It cheapens everything about you. You cannot afford to lose your own self-respect. If you do, so will everyone else. And that’s too high a price to pay. Would your 40 year old self be proud of you? Would

you want your future son or daughter to act like you are acting now? Would you be comfortable with your mother reading what you post? A clear conscience is the most valuable thing on the planet. Earn it.