i got SO mad at my aunt the other day where she was like "gasp how dare you demand a salary from your own dad" and i was like bc im working duhh anf she went on a rant how that's disrespectful since they give me my food and shit-

so i was like "how about uncle, he works with dad but he gets a salary" and then she was like its bc he's a man and he had responsibilities

AND IM LIKE OKAY HOW ABOUT ME?? SURE I DONT HAVE KIDS BUT I HAVE A CAT- A LIVING THING BEING DEPENDENT ON ME, HOW ABOUT THE THINGS I WANT? THE FOOD I WANT TO EAT, THE ELECTRONICS/STATIONARIES/CLOTHES/BAGS THAT I WANT TO BUY FOR MY HAPPINESS BUT MY PARENTS WON'T GET THEM FOR ME???

HOW DO I GET THOSE HUH AUNTIE LIKE AND SHE WAS LIKE "OH UR HUSBAN-" BIH HUDBAND KU DTG BILA?? HOW ABOUT THE TIME BETWEEN NOW AND WHEN I HAVE A DAMN HUSBAND HUH HUH

*deep breaths* also this stupid mindset where the husband will provide everything is total bs like sure head of the household yada yada i get it but he wont get me my dream car like would he unless he's a millionaire or some shit

and if i DONT want to be dependent on him for everything i have the right to feel that way fjdhsjd istg at times i hate my family bc of their toxic mindset that honestly makes no sense to me

i probably made no sense in this thread and if you made it till here, wow sis u must be borEd