Alright, I wanted to be clear with y& #39;all about where finances are going. I dunno that it& #39;s owed, y& #39;all have been incredibly generous regardless, but I want to anyway.
Short thread:
Short thread:
Money that comes in from one-time sources like my online shops or paypal is going directly into savings for surprise costs/fees/etc. I& #39;m treating it as "oh shit, I couldn& #39;t have budgeted for that" money.
If there is any still sitting in savings by the time I have negotiated my way to safety, it will transition to being my move-out fund for things like a deposit/moving costs/etc. when I am able to move somewhere more permanently.
Money that is coming in on a monthly basis via my Patreon is my budget. I& #39;m making long-term financial decisions based on this income and this income alone to make sure I don& #39;t reach past my means and end up back in a similar situation.
I have been absolutely floored by the outpouring of support, both financial and emotional, over the last few days. I may not be on steady ground yet, but I want y& #39;all to know that you& #39;ve all already had a huge impact on me in a truly harrowing time, so thank you.
Now for the not-fun part.
To the best of my knowledge, my ability to stay where I am ends tomorrow when my friends& #39; roommates come home. Other friends in the city are currently unable to house me. Homeless shelters have frozen admissions and hotels are closed.
To the best of my knowledge, my ability to stay where I am ends tomorrow when my friends& #39; roommates come home. Other friends in the city are currently unable to house me. Homeless shelters have frozen admissions and hotels are closed.
I am waiting on mental health support that will be coming on Thursday. I am setting up negotiations for my return to the house I fled, but I don& #39;t know how long that will take as it& #39;s heavily dependent on the people I was fleeing in the first place.
At the moment, it seems my only option will be to find somewhere relatively safe and sheltered and hunker down outside. I have steeled myself for remaining that way until negotiations are completed, but I am open to alternatives if people have them.
I can& #39;t promise I& #39;ll reply to everyone but if you have a suggestion for how I can find shelter, I& #39;ll take it. Better yet, if you or someone you know in the city has a couch & is willing to risk a stranger coming in, y& #39;all& #39;s support means I would be able to pay for that assistance
Bonus points for my temporary roommate résumé: I& #39;m good at cooking, I really only take up a few square feet of room including my packed bags, and I& #39;m an avid user of headphones so I don& #39;t come with a lot of noise.
That& #39;s it. That& #39;s all I& #39;ve got for this thread. I& #39;m going to keep looking for options today, but thank you again for all the help you have given me as I struggle through this situation. If you missed the thread this one is about, here you go: https://twitter.com/Anarisis/status/1244798517836533760">https://twitter.com/Anarisis/...