The right wing conception of masculinity is absolutely bizarre. They are like:
"Be a man! Eat steaks. Wear pants. Passively submit to authority based on property relationships. Let the poor die. Destroy the environment if it makes you feel good for two seconds. That& #39;s manliness."

It seems to me as though real masculinity, in almost every culture, has always been about growing into an adult and realizing that adults put the community& #39;s needs above their individual ego.

In other words, to no longer be a child who just wants to get their way.