some further #WangNingXian ideas from talking with @kitschful bc I cannot!! stop! thinking about them!!!
- I want to see more of wwx just crashing at wn's house all the time as if he lives there before they get together, and wn is SO PLEASED but also SO STRESSED bc of his CRUSH

- after wwx and lwj mutually agree to start officially courting wn, them going on 3 person dates where lwj and wwx both try to out-spoil the other 2 and wn is just "omg " bc he does not know how to reciprocate but he loves! it!!!

- them going on night hunts together and wn averting his eyes when wangxian get all horny and make out against trees and then lwj sees him trying to slink away & is like "how rude, would u like to also make out" and then they gotta have a Talk about How Does This Work

- alternately/also, at some point wn is like, "their love language is physical affection so I must learn how to give gentle kisses" & he practices in secret like he re-learned how to pour tea and then wwx walks in on him and is just overcome at the thoughtfulness

- (and offers to help practice OBVIOUSLY, what kind of boyfriend would he be if he didn't)

- wwx and lwj are 100% the marrying type so you KNOW they would propose to wn in the sweetest possible way after courting his socks off. there would be tender declarations and liberal "forever"s and lwj would write him a song

- much later on, wn in a wwx/lwj sandwich all night as they sleep. he had told them it was unnecessary, he doesn't sleep, but they insisted and now wwx is snuggling him and he feels so RELAXED, even better than sitting out in the sun all day

- wen ning planting chilis in his garden and finding someone who can teach him how to make chili garlic sauce so wwx always has a guaranteed supply

every time wwx uses it (which is at.....every meal) he goes on and ON about how delicious it is and how tragic it is that neither of his husbands want to/can taste it. the next year wn has to plant twice as many chilis bc wwx goes through all the sauce so quickly xD

ok i think that's all my soft and tender headcanons for now but stay tuned for some SPICIE HEADCANONS later (first i must work)