I read somewhere that you only fall in love with three people in our lifetime. Do you think it’s true? The first one is the love that looks right “Often our first is when we are young, in high school even. It’s the idealistic love”

The second is the hard love. “The second is supposed to be our hard love—the one that teaches us lessons about who we are and how we often want or need to be loved. Sometimes it’s unhealthy, unbalanced or narcissistic even. It’s the love that we wished was right”

The third one is the love that lasts. “This love is considered to be the ‘easy love’ – the love that is simple with no complications. It’s the love that comes our way when we’re not looking. This love will not be complicated like your past loves.”

“This is the love where we come together with someone & it just fits—there aren’t any ideal expectations about how each person should be acting, nor is there pressure to become someone other than we are”

for me aku rasa betul, the first one is my high school ex, the second one is my longest relationship 6 years or more tah, the third one is pais