I wonder if there’s a man out there who hasn’t gotten over me and unfairly compares his current girlfriend to an inflated memory of who I was and the way our lives could have been if things were different. Because that’s not very cash money of you, dude!

anyway, if you’re not over your ex that’s because holding on to the last shreds of what feels like validation is a form of self flagellation you think you deserve because it’s easier than trying to progress

tl;dr it’s entirely your fault and that’s okay.

this thread was inspired by one minute on reddit