I think this is an important thread, @doctor_oxford is always thoughtful & compassionate & well practiced in end of life care.

These conversations need to be had, today, with your loved ones. Written down & witnessed if possible/necessary. It will save much heartache later. 1/ https://twitter.com/EmmaDixon_EU/status/1245677600099438595

When my Mum was very poorly aged 88 & in hospital a few years ago Dad & I both knew she had a DNR in place. To me it was clear she'd reached her time, she was tired. This allowed her to pass away peacefully holding my Dad's hand.
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I know being with family as they die may not be possible during this pandemic & that's a heavy burden, but it will be made lighter by not suddenly being faced with questions about medical care that you've never even considered or discussed. 3/

I'm firmly of the opinion regarding medical care that just because something *can* be done it doesn't mean it *should* - QoL should always be a major factor in decision making.

You & your family may have different views & that's fine too. But please make sure that 4/

you know what they are. Also - organ donation - if it's possible it could turn your tragic loss into life for someone else - make sure you know your loved ones wishes & share them with the medical team when appropriate. Namaste
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