Let me tell y’all this story about men & them not getting tested for STD’s

So anyone who knows me or even has followed me for a while knows I am a big advocate on using condoms & getting tested. Be safe.

I am big on making men get tested because a lot of them DON’T. When I was in college I had a sex partner right, It was JUST sex. However I still always used condoms. Unprotected sex is not my thing. I don’t want kids or an STD.

So anyway yea I had this sex partner & it was cool, then I left college blah blah, nothing serious. He would text me here & there. This was 2-3 years ago.

So obviously in the last 2-3 years I’ve gotten tested multiple times, my yearly check ups, Pap test, I got tested anytime after a sex partner including him. Also before me & my ex started having unprotected sex we both got tested. SOOOOO ya know everything good so

Reminder 2-3 years ago. Okay. We move forward to months ago when I changed my number. I changed my number & my college sex partner dm me asking for it. Which btw not weird at all, he’s had it before, didn’t think much of it

So when I gave him my number, the only people that currently had it were my mom & 2 of my friends & him, him being the only person who I have ever fucked in my life that had my number. Not even my ex had my new number yet. No one really did

Bitch why in the next few hours I get a text that a sex partner tested positive for an std. & I’m sitting there like... cause my ass hadn’t had sex in months, had already been tested after my breakup, I was just LOST

So obviously I knew exactly who just tested positive for an STD, what I didn’t understand is... how the fuck havent you gotten tested in 2-3 years to the point where you think you might have gave it to ME?!

& alsoooo when you ask men & even women if they gotten tested they will all say yes. Which is really irresponsible. You need to be honest with your sex partner. Imagine being responsible for giving someone an STD that’s not curable because you lied about your results.

realized most men don’t want to use condoms, don’t want to get tested, it’s all too “inconvenient” for them. Since most of them don’t show symptoms, they just don’t care. Please get tested after every partner. Please use condoms.

& I on part have forced men to get tested & done my part in society even when I don’t end up having sex with them. It’s good collateral. “Get tested & you MIGHT get to fuck me” LMFAOOOOO

ALSO STOP PUTTING YOUR MOUTH ON PEOPLE’S GENITALS. I KNOW a lot of people would make fun of me when I was so open about not sucking dick or oral sex but that is something that’s VERY intimate & shouldn’t be done with people who’s test results you don’t know or trust.