There is not a sleeping arrangement that is 100% safe. Nearly all bed sharing related deaths are from unprepared, uninformed mothers. A sober, non smoking, breastfeeding mom can responsibly make the decision to bedshare.

https://twitter.com/mamaamckinley/status/1173995568030461954?s=21 https://twitter.com/sydniterri/status/1245428480000622593

I’m sorry, I should rephrase, most bed sharing related deaths are from uninformed, unprepared caregivers*.