The stress that comes with sex as a female is not talked about enough and I always thought it only happened to me https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Loudly crying face" aria-label="Emoji: Loudly crying face">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Loudly crying face" aria-label="Emoji: Loudly crying face">. The peeing after it, is easy.

The abdominal pain, the discomfort afterwards, the yeast infection sometimes, sex throwing off your ph balance https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Loudly crying face" aria-label="Emoji: Loudly crying face">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Loudly crying face" aria-label="Emoji: Loudly crying face">, scares..

Gaining weight because of contraceptives. Pain during it sometimes. Sometimes it burns. Condom reactions

I can go on

Yho at first sex was so painful. Still is sometimes. The build up can make me tense because I want to not be penetrated. I like thinking about it than doing it. This happens if I havent had it in a LOOOOOONG time.

Like can we just kiss 4 eva? Ey ey ey

Guys will legit go from talking to you to being on top of you and my heart races. The mental preparation. I mean, I want to have it nhe but yho Im scared a bit. Sex sometimes scare me. Like “we are doing it now now, omg okay uhm...”

Ndiveske ndiyoyike ibengathi ndizoxhelwa (well...) but ey fuck man.

I also hate this assumption about women not communicating this to their partners that you got out of this thread when it was solely focused on the perspective of a woman. For once, focusing on HER!!! THERE IS COMMUNICATION!!!

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