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" our daughter is not for sale"
This is how it should be done
This is how it should be done
But guys yall can't be saying Dude ain't proudly an African
While yall wearing clothes, hair, shoes from the west
While yall wearing clothes, hair, shoes from the west
I think there are 3 questions that are not answered here
1: if yall saying ilobola isfor the newly weds to start a family, then why yall have a problem when they returned to him so he can start his family
1: if yall saying ilobola isfor the newly weds to start a family, then why yall have a problem when they returned to him so he can start his family
2 : if indeed is a token of appreciation, why the other family does not receive the same thing since they raised a good man who worked hard to marry their daughter?
Doesn't his family deserves a token of appreciation also?
Doesn't his family deserves a token of appreciation also?
Nna ngwanyana will have to answer me gore
"since I'm giving your parents money for lobola"
Wena " what are giving to my parents"
So we all can have a mutual understanding and contribution towards our own wedding and our own marriage.
"since I'm giving your parents money for lobola"
Wena " what are giving to my parents"
So we all can have a mutual understanding and contribution towards our own wedding and our own marriage.
If you ain't giving my parents anything, then we will wait until you have something to give to my own parents for raising me and taking me to schools or as a token of appreciation also
I just realized
Those demanding lobola
Don't even know exactly why should it be paid to their parents
Those demanding lobola
Don't even know exactly why should it be paid to their parents
