But guys yall can& #39;t be saying Dude ain& #39;t proudly an African
While yall wearing clothes, hair, shoes from the west
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While yall wearing clothes, hair, shoes from the west
I think there are 3 questions that are not answered here
1: if yall saying ilobola isfor the newly weds to start a family, then why yall have a problem when they returned to him so he can start his family
1: if yall saying ilobola isfor the newly weds to start a family, then why yall have a problem when they returned to him so he can start his family
2 : if indeed is a token of appreciation, why the other family does not receive the same thing since they raised a good man who worked hard to marry their daughter?
Doesn& #39;t his family deserves a token of appreciation also?
Doesn& #39;t his family deserves a token of appreciation also?
Nna ngwanyana will have to answer me gore
"since I& #39;m giving your parents money for lobola"
Wena " what are giving to my parents"
So we all can have a mutual understanding and contribution towards our own wedding and our own marriage.
"since I& #39;m giving your parents money for lobola"
Wena " what are giving to my parents"
So we all can have a mutual understanding and contribution towards our own wedding and our own marriage.
If you ain& #39;t giving my parents anything, then we will wait until you have something to give to my own parents for raising me and taking me to schools or as a token of appreciation also
I just realized
Those demanding lobola
Don& #39;t even know exactly why should it be paid to their parents
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Those demanding lobola
Don& #39;t even know exactly why should it be paid to their parents