If you knew that he probably has assets upon assets and a powerful network instead of baby mothers and drug-dealing friends, you probably would have gone ahead. But Black women are always prioritising the wrong things. Not surprised https://twitter.com/tolly_t/status/1244374299974262786

Show this to anyone who says Black Women are undesirable. You’re the least likely to respond to the advances of non-Black men so they stop making advances to you altogether because they think you’re going to reject them anyway. Women like this ruin it for every other black women.

My tweet was sarcastic but it's true that Black women really ARE shutting doors on themselves before finding out what's behind it. The look of disgust was so unnecessary. Many BW stay rejecting men who don't look the part, then they hop on here to tweet things like this:

Let's not act as if Black Women aren't struggling in the dating world because we choose to be loyal to a group of men who are unapologetic and loud about dating the rainbow.
Let's not act as if Black Women aren't familiar with Baby mother drama and men who've dealt with drugs.

Let's not act as if BW aren't still being made single mothers at alarming rates. Let's not act as if BW aren't the more-educated counterparts, who are also more likely to be bread-winners. Let's not act as if BW don't experience the highest rates of INTRAracial abuse.

Many of you BW are tired and want a new experience. If you continue treating men you don't even know with disgust, you'll shoot yourself in the foot. You may be rejecting a potential loser but you may also be rejecting someone who ISN'T.
Be open. From there, filter the losers out