You get a chance at the one thing, that SO many gay men want, a masculine, straight (complicated, see my other thread, but similar enough) partner who will love & desire how feminine you are, fuck you till the night is long, and literally sweep you off your feet into the sunset.

For many people, this is simply the end result of using your one life, to chase the things you want most, no matter how difficult they may be. You may read this as being hyper sexual. But fundamentally, this has a profound impact emotionally on your potential happiness in life.

I talk with my fem gay friends often & listen to their lives. They aren't all doomed to misery & loneliness, ofcourse not. But there is an undertone of feeling limited, perhaps they are not feminine enought to WANT to transition, at the end of the day, society isn't built for us.

Personally, going through this transition, it has been difficult, but profoundly rewarding, to an extent I didn't realise was even possible. But I'm glad I took the hard road, because I got what I wanted, and that's the realest tea I can spill for yall.