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i present to you : tips on how to realize your inner amazingness and how to obliterate your insecurities
this is just stuff i did that made me the way i am today (the best person ever) and obv i’m not a psychiatrist like this is for shitts and gigs but like also you all slay and you need to realize it.
1. this ones big. i read it online one time and it changed my life. look in the mirror. STARE at yourself. its gonna be uncomfortable but i’m talking a mirror on ur desk while ur doing hw from just staring at yourself on ur snapchat camera. get used to ur own face bc it’s pretty.
2. this ones obvious but? surround urself with supportive people. your friends don’t wanna see you sparkle and shine? BYE! it’s 2020. everyones replaceable. 1 good friend is better than 100 toxic ones. (i dropped an absolute terror of a friend group and through it met my fav ppl)
3. ok this sounds weird but hear me out. try to make yourself laugh. like literally save some funny comments for just you and yourself. i have so many inside jokes with myself which is why i think i’m so funny. because i am.
4. “their problem” concept. someone doesn’t think you’re funny? their problem. someone doesn’t like you in general? their problem. this literally goes for ANYTHING. don’t let people shit on you. why? because it’s their problem they’re tasteless.
5. this one took forever for me personally but stop trying to be like everyone else! so cliché but for real you love glee? talk about glee. stop trying to look cool because trust me, when you talk about things you actually like and find people who also like it NOTHING is better.
6. similar to the “their problem concept” i introduce the “it wont fucking matter” concept. bc really, none of it matters. sucky highschool friends? good thing theres college so it wont fucking matter. this is literally my mantra. (be careful it’s also why i dont care abt things)
7. congratulate yourself. did you get up early? did you eat healthy? did you do good on your makeup? did you update your au? nothing is too small because YOU! did it. and let’s be honest? who’s doing it like you.
8. this one is my fav. get excited for your friends. like really excited. your friend did that and it’s so awesome that your friend is friends with you they are also so amazing and perfect. when you put 110% into it ur friends wanna give it back & if they dont? see # 2.
9. ok this sounds mean but another slogan : NOBODY GIVES A SHIT! deadass. you think u look ugly today? girly idk to tell you this but nobody gives a shit. not a lot of insta likes? nobody gives a shit. we’re all just obsessed with ourselves. people rarely notice change in others.
10. ok last one bc i have to go slay in zoom school but just in general - HANGOUT WITH YOURSELF. i like do to this in the form of a dance party usually. i also talk to myself way too much. but just make sure you’re putting time into your friendship with yourself ? ok ? i love you
disclaimer - i’m aware that i sound like an arrogant bitch lol i swear i’m not actually this psycho but u have to think like that bitch to BE that bitch.
