SINCE,, im improving myself, im just gonna make a list that might help me w/ it:
Things i should be working on:
1)stop tying my self worth to the amount of attention/validation i get
2)FUCKING STOP with the self-depreciating jokes/stop calling myself dumb/useless/a loser
(1/4)

3)lower my expectations/realize not everything every1 does is personal/try to respect ppl's boundaries & understand their need for space if i think they Might Be ignorin me
4)stop letting social media make me feel lonely & unseen/unheard
5)stop being ableist towards myself
(2/4)

Things im good at and should appreciate more:
1)im v kind and care about people, a lot.
2)i learn very quickly
3)im p good at a lot of various things
4)im a good friend
5)im smart (IM STILL A HIMBO THO)
6)im a good listener and i try to help people as much as im able to
(3/4)

7)im funny (i guess?? I mean im very good at making people feel a lot better by making them laugh when they're upset)
8)i love to love ppl
9)i have a cute style (LISTEN. im running out of things)
10)i can look at everything in an artistic/poetic (LEAVE ME ALONE IM A LESBIAN) way

SO. I WROTE THESE BC I WILL BE COMING BACK TO THEM VERY OFTEN FROM NOW ON AND I PROMISE TO LISTEN TO MYSELF.
ALSO YOU CAN TOTALLY IGNORE THIS THREAD LOL