Here's the story on how I got cheated and seen that sex tape

Met her in 2015 off this app. We got acquainted really quick and even tho she lived states away we had a connection. I use to randomly have flowers delivered to her and everything. Then one day she gave me an ultimatum

I had to move her to me by the end of January or I'd lose out. In my mind I had put too much time in to lose out plus was living with my mom at the time. In the span of a month I booked her flight and got us an apartment

I was doing everything to keep a smile on her face. Buying her what she wanted so much that I started working 2 jobs to continue it.

Fast forward to January 2018 things piling up and we're struggling. I suggested maybe she go home until I get things situated and we could start our relationship fresh. She was highly upset about it but kinda agreed

Well January 25th she finally decides to go our with coworkers to have fun and I'm encouraging it. She left home at 8:30. I text her at 12 to make sure she was ok but no response. I called at 12:30 but she ignored the call

She text me letting me know she'd be home soon. 2:30 She texts saying their getting food. By 3 I was sleep and she text saying they were still getting food. She comes home at 7 and on the 26th (My birthday)

So this goes on for about a month where she leaves to hang with "co-workers" and comes home at 7. By the end of February my intuition us kicking my ass and I had to get to the bottom of it

1st weekend if March she had to work and as she slept I snuck and grabbed her phone (bitch move on my part I know). I saw the "special name" saved and was like here we go.

I skimmed a couple messages saying

Him: you enjoyed my performance
Her: yes I can't wait to hook up again cause that shit was good

Then finally I get to 2 attachments that was sent by him. Hit play and there it is a video of him clapping my ex cheeks into oblivion.

I was in distraught and then it quickly turned into rage. I did everything I could to be the best boyfriend she could ask for and I'm being cheated.

I lost my shit but what kept me from not going overboard was my grandma flashed in my mind.

Even after that I tried to make it work but the trust was broken and I couldn't move passed her cheating on me. Anything she did suspicious I assumed she was doing something.

Even tho I was cheated on it helped mold me to a better man and I thank her for telling my flaws and what led up to it. I'm not bitter about it. It was a learning experience

Thanks for reading my truth. Y'all be blessed