So everyone here knows you don’t have to be disgusted by subs to be a “real” domme... right?

Subs can be smart. Subs can be sexy. Subs can be funny and sweet and make great conversation. You can like your subs and still humiliate them during play. Kink is not one-dimensional.

You can torture/drain a sub brutally and without mercy until they beg you to stop, and then when it’s over, joke with them & shoot the shit while they come down from subspace. I just?? Don’t understand when it became “weak” to enjoy subs as human beings.

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And while I’m at it, yall really just ending sessions & taking your money & not getting any feedback??? You don’t wanna know what worked, what didn’t, how they felt, how they’re feeling...? That is so BORING how do you ever grow as a domme or build long term dynamics that way??

I’m really happy this is resonating with so many people, both dommes and subs. All I have to promote is kindness, SSC/RACK, and my OnlyFans ( http://onlyfans.com/SicilianaVivian ) Stay gorgeous babes.

The general term for those who enjoy both domination and submission depending on the situation is a “switch.” Hope this helps.