lesbians are allowed to only date other lesbians. lesbians have certain life experiences and if they want to bond with people who experience those and have an innate understanding of their experiences then that is valid. it’s not biphobia to set boundaries and have preferences.

black ppl wanting to date eachother. only they can TRULY understand what it means to be black, how it affects every interaction they have w/non black ppl. theres an inherent understanding. the fact that many bi ppl feel entitled to lesbians tells us everything we need to know

calling lesbians biphobic STILL after reading this explanation means you’re a narcissist and refuse to understand other peoples pov. setting boundaries is not biphobic. investing in your own community is not biphobic. saying no is not biphobic.