Men are often ashamed of being attracted to me because of my size. They also think I should be grateful for them even paying attention to me and think im going to be ok with being treated as a secret or as disposable.

You got the wrong fat bitch for that one, sir.

Big women can and do have standards. We’re not objects to satisfy your perverted fetish. We’re human beings and should be treated as such.

And you know, men don’t outright say they’re ashamed of their attraction to me. It’s in their actions. Like how they emphasize that I’m “thick” and “not fat.”

Like sir, I’m a solid 240 pounds. I’m fat and you like it. Get tf over it.

Or they will be alllllll up in my DM’s and be so mute in person or try to talk shit about me to their friends. Okay sir. Don’t make me air your shit out.