Why do men love more deeply than woman? Most men understand that love takes time. Men do not base their love off the way a woman makes them feel. Men don’t allow romance to dictate their decision making on a spouse.
Men got to understand what love is. Romance isn’t love. Date nights, vacations, gifts aren’t expression of love. They are perks of companionship. Woman take the perks and think that they are in love. Cause they are basing their love off of puesdo action.
To build a foundation of love you’ve to first get past the companionship stage. Love should never be based on the perks of the relationship. Cause once the “ perks “ stop the love stops.
Men do not want to create love. They let love be. Love is love. Love isn’t a project. Love isn’t science. Love isn’t a new revelation. Love is unseen force that binds a woman to a man based on character. Woman want to fall inlove. Men want to be inlove.
He can be with her for years. And can only start to truly love her and all she carries with her after that time. Something men and woman can be with someone for years, decades and still b unsure of the person they lay next to. Everyday is a test.
Men are patient creatures. If a man feels like the woman he wants is in another relationship he will wait. Find a way to stick around and stay close. He won’t feel threatened by other men because his love runs deeper then companionship.
If men can understand their power and women respect their own power of what love is relationships would be different. I do think both genders lack understanding of what foundation is. We in the western culture base if off what we feel. But feelings change everyday.
That was the simplest way I could put it. Men have pure love for women. Same pure love women have for their offspring. We love differently . Men then woman then children. Men protect the woman. Women protect the children.
So all in all women are more prone to walk away from “love”. Women are more prone to “ have love” for a man. Women are more likely to look out for her own emotions and her social status.
Women are more likely to think her romancing and “ sacrifice” of time with a man is love. It’s not period
Women believe her time is more valuable than love she yarns for. But if you truly love your men she wouldn’t be equating it to time. She wouldn’t be measuring her love. She wouldn’t be saying other men want me I wasted my time.
Let me add my disclaimer : I’m not saying men are better lovers than woman. Conditional lovers ( women) have standards, expectations, needs and wants. As a man fulfills, she falls more in love. Thanks for coming to my #TedTalk
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