me: i don't have fukcing TIME for more social media i should delete this account

also me: has literally nowhere else to talk about some stuff

anyways the point is i wish kink wasn't so stigmatized. i was talking to my best friend the other night and i was getting so embarrassed talking about one not even explicit kink thing when we talk about masturbation + sex shit all the time??

i am a grown ass woman who has known she isn't vanilla for a very long time. but bc the culture around talking about sex is so vanilla, it makes everything more difficult.

i don't even want to be putting this shit on blast for the whole world to see! i don't! i just want to be able to physically talk about it with my close friends. instead of behaving like a blushing preteen just learning about sex, y'know?