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Btw I think this can be worked on. Aquarian’s grow up in a household where emotions were basically completely irrelevant. Everyone had their own life and plans and there was no emotional openness about their day, how they felt, never asked how family decisions affected them https://twitter.com/MysticxLipstick/status/1225430660028026881">https://twitter.com/MysticxLi...
They have to acknowledge that the way they were treated was not fair or justified so that they can acknowledge that it’s not fair for them to treat others like that either. They also need to extend compassion to their younger self so that they can grow their empathy present day
Aquarian’s have to learn to be more introspective about the way they treat others so that they can be the person they want to be INSIDE and out. (Self awareness and introspection is a struggle for the universal signs- Aquarius, Capricorn, Pisces, Sagittarius)
Aquarius also needs to realize that they don’t have to externalize their emotions for them to be valid. This happened because their emotions where never validated when younger. Ex: *Aquarius feels sad because they’re feeling lonely. They haven’t gone out the house in a while*
How Aquarius externalizes the feeling: “(person) won’t talk to me and they made me miserable because of it” or “people are shitty and depress me that’s why I can’t be bothered”
The reality is they just feel sad because it’s natural to have emotional reactions.
The reality is they just feel sad because it’s natural to have emotional reactions.
They make it someone else’s fault because they feel like if they just acknowledge their feelings that’s not enough for it to be valid on its own.
This is also why when someone says “this thing you did hurt my feelings” they feel like the person is saying it’s their fault for their current emotional state when the reality is that the person is just expressing themselves
They take others emotions as a personal attack because they don’t understand the difference between acknowledging how someone emotionally effected you vs blaming them and making them a bad guy